About
There is a particular ease that settles when nobody is being judged
Story
How I came to this work
Nobody taught me how to be close to people. I went looking for it in men’s work, in retreats, and in workshops on sensuality and sexuality, and what I found was a fascination with people, why they feel what they feel, and with how much opens up once they feel safe enough to stop performing.
I started this work in 2023, and doing it inside my relationship with Evie meant there was nowhere to hide. It asked me to unpick most of what I had inherited about the kind of man I was supposed to be. Underneath all of that I found a deeper pleasure in generosity, trust and shared desire.
In my own time you’ll find me behind a camera, deep in conversation about sexuality on our podcast, or writing about attraction and intimacy. I’m endlessly curious about the gap between what people are told they should want and what actually makes them feel alive.
Offering
What I bring to our time together
I’m warm, attentive and unhurried, and I like to get a feel for a room before I settle into it. People often tell me they relaxed sooner than they expected, which matters to me, because everything good in intimacy begins with feeling safe, respected and free to say what you want.
I only work alongside Evie, and that’s a deliberate choice. Our bond is real, so the way we move around each other is natural rather than staged. Whether you come to us as a couple or on your own, you’re spending time with two people who genuinely adore each other’s company.
Our time together might be a playful threesome, a sensual massage, a gentle exploration of something you’ve only imagined, or a long dinner that becomes a long night. Whatever shape it takes, I hold the space with care so you can relax into the experience and let your curiosity lead.