A bi-curious couples experience is a foursome for couples where one or both of you are curious about same-sex play and want a safe, supported place to explore it.
For every experience I work alongside Evie Elysian, my real-life partner. What I love about this booking is how gently it lets you find out what same-sex contact actually feels like for you. Having your own partner in the room makes it safer than exploring alone, and having two experienced people there means you have guides. The fluidity is always there to play with so you follow your curiosity exactly as far as feels right on the day.
What the session can hold
We build it around what the two of you have agreed to explore, and it can take some combination of:
- An easy start with the four of us together, opposite-sex pairings warming up first while the curiosity builds at its own pace
- Your female partner’s first kiss or touch with another woman, with Evie leading slowly and attentively
- Your first contact with another man, with me following your pace and never moving past where you are
- The chance to watch your partner discover something new
- Light same-sex touch, or fuller exploration if the day carries you there, with genuinely no pressure either way
- Coming back to opposite-sex pairings whenever you want, so the session never has to stay in one place
How I approach the session
Exploring bi-curiosity alongside a partner needs care, and that is where Evie and I are at our best. Before the booking we talk with both of you about what you actually want, what you are nervous about and where your edges sit, and we hold those edges without question.
Evie is warm, patient and a wonderful first sapphic experience for women, attentive to what you respond to and never rushing. I bring the same to the men I work with, settled and easygoing, leading from presence rather than performance, so a first experience with another man feels natural instead of daunting.
My boundaries with other men
I am open to kissing, mutual sensual and sexual touch, and protected oral exploration with another man. I do not offer penetrative sex with men, and I do not receive penetrative sex from anyone. These are hard limits. Evie offers pegging as an option in relevant sessions if that is something you are drawn to, and we are happy to talk that through as we design the booking.
Who tends to come to us for this
Most often it is committed couples where one or both of you have wondered about a same-sex experience for a long time and want somewhere safe to explore it. Sometimes you are both curious and want to discover your own and each other’s curiosity together. Sometimes only one of you is curious, with the other genuinely happy to be there and involved while their partner explores.
Reaching out
Tell us what each of you is drawn to and what you are hoping to explore with us. If there are things you definitely want included, or definitely off the table, say so upfront. Both of you need to be on board with the booking, and we check in with each of you at the start.
We work from our private space in inner Melbourne, a discreet and homely setting. Outcall foursome sessions are available across Melbourne and the surrounding areas if you would rather be at a hotel or your own home. FMTY and DMTY bookings are also available.
