A bi curious threesome gives a man who has been carrying curiosity about the same gender a soft, unhurried way to find out what contact with another man actually feels like for him. The curiosity may have been around for years. The first kiss with another man, the first taste of his skin, the first realisation that this is genuinely exciting: these are big moments, and they need safety. My real-life partner Evie will join us in this experience.
What a session can hold
Every bi curious MMF session can include:
- A relaxed start with the three of us getting to know each other
- A first kiss with me while Evie watches, touches you, or kisses you in between
- Light sensual or sexual touch between myself and you
- Your first experience of giving or receiving oral with another man
- Three way play where the energy moves freely between all of us
- Returning to time with Evie whenever you want, so the session does not have to stay only in bi curious territory
- Breaks for water and conversation if you need a moment
How we work with you
A first experience with another man needs safety, especially alongside years of cultural conditioning that may have made it feel forbidden. I have done my own exploring around male fluidity and am comfortable being a first male contact for bi curious men who are still working this out. I move slowly, communicate clearly and read the your body language.
Evie’s presence is grounding, safe and warm. She is a large part of the dynamic, and she is good at making sure you feel safe across the whole experience rather than narrowly fixed on the element with another man. Many clients say her presence is what made the MMF threesome feel safe enough to actually go for.
What I offer with men
I am open to kissing, mutual touch and oral exploration with another man, and I am comfortable and skilled in this kind of dynamic. I do not offer penetrative sex with men, and I do not receive penetrative sex from anyone. These are hard limits that apply across all of my work.
If pegging is something that draws you, Evie offers it as an option in relevant sessions, and we can build that into the booking if it suits what you are after.
Who tends to come to us for this
Single men who have wondered about other men for years and never had a setting to explore it. Partnered men in heterosexual relationships who are curious. Men coming out of long term relationships who are using this chapter to meet parts of themselves. Men who already know they are bi curious and simply want a well held MMF threesome as an entry point into more.
Booking a session
Send a message with a little about yourself, what has drawn you to a bi curious MMF and what you are hoping the experience might offer. If there are things you definitely want included or definitely want left out, share them upfront. We will reply with what is possible, a suggested length and any practical considerations.
We work from our private space in inner Melbourne. Outcall MMF sessions to hotels or your home are available across Melbourne and the surrounding areas. Fly Me To You is also available.
