Many men have nowhere they can simply go to receive nuturing, platonic touch and care. The cultural messaging around masculinity makes it harder for men to reach basic human needs, being held, witnessed and looked after.
Our non sexual companionship sessions for men in Melbourne are built around this. They are a space made without expectation, where you do not need to perform or achieve anything to be welcomed. You arrive, you are received warmly by the two of us, and the booking is shaped entirely around what would be nourishing for you. For every experience I work alongside Evie Elysian, my real-life partner.
What a session can include
What we shape together depends on what you need. A companionship session with us can be made up of:
- Conversation with people who are emotionally intelligent and great at listening
- Being held in cuddles, fully clothed
- A shared meal together
- Warm, attentive non-sexual touch like
- Holding hands, stroking hair and back scratches
- Time in our space with a film, a drink and unhurried company
- Talking about things you might not have anyone else in your life to talk to about
Some men come for one of these specifically. Others want a combination, or want to see what unfolds once they have settled in. We are flexible and we follow your pace.
Why this matters for men
A lot of men carry a need for tenderness they have never really had. Most of the places where adults usually receive warmth come with their own complications for men, and a space made for a man to simply be held without having to give anything back is genuinely rare.
Who tends to come to us for this
Single men who have not been touched with real warmth in a long time. Men in long term relationships where the affection has thinned out and they want somewhere to meet that need without complicating their partnership. Recently divorced or grieving men rebuilding a sense of being loved and cared for. Professionally successful men who carry a lot for everyone else and need a space where someone carries for them. Men who have done their inner work, recognise what they are missing, and have decided to go and get it.
Booking a session
A message to let us know what you may be interested in experiencing, whether that is conversation, touch, cuddles, a meal, a film at our space or something else.
If sexual contact is part of what you would like included, that falls under our threesome experience and we are glad to talk it through. If it is not, this companionship session is a complete and deeply nourishing experience without it. Both paths sit within what we offer with equal warmth.
We work from our private space in inner Melbourne and are also available for outcalls across Melbourne and the surrounding areas. Companionship for men is one of our most rewarding bookings, and we welcome enquiries from local Melbourne clients as well as men travelling through. Fly Me To You travel sessions are also available.