Our non sexual touch and cuddle sessions in Melbourne are fully clothed bookings spent in safe, attentive physical contact and warm companionship with us, with full attention to what your nervous system actually needs to settle. If you are also looking for sexual experiences, those fall under our threesome experience, which we are glad to talk through separately. For every experience I work alongside Evie Elysian, my real-life partner.
What a session can involve
Each session is shaped around what would feel nourishing for you. Elements clients often ask for:
- Spooning on a couch or bed with a film playing and slow breathing alongside you
- Long, full body hugs with weight and pressure that let the body actually soften
- Hands held, hair stroked, gentle face cupping and the small affectionate gestures that go missing in adult life
- Being held while you talk, sit in silence or take a nap
- Lying between us with one of us on each side
- Slow, attentive touch on your back, shoulders or scalp
- Real conversation woven through the touch
We adapt the touch and the company to what you need. Some people arrive wanting to be held still, others want active stroking and movement. Many need to talk for the first hour before any contact, some want touch from the moment they walk in. We follow your pace.
Why this kind of touch matters
Adults need physical contact and warm company for the same reasons children do, but the cultural conversation around touch tends to assume you only get it through romance, family or paid massage. None of those are available to everyone, and even when they are, they rarely include slow, unhurried, attentive touch with the kind of present company that lets the nervous system settle.
There is nothing magical about what happens in a good cuddle session, it is biological. The body recognises safety, releases the hormones tied to bonding and rest, and your physiology moves into a state most modern adults rarely get to. People often leave looser, calmer and more like themselves, with the effect lasting well beyond the booking.
Who tends to come to us for this
Single people who have not been touched with warmth in months or years. Long term partnered people whose relationship has thinned out around non-sexual physical affection and easy company. People working through grief, illness, divorce or burnout who need somewhere to be held. People recovering from touch related trauma who want to slowly rebuild a sense that contact can feel safe. Anyone who has worked out that their nervous system is asking for this and has decided to give it to themselves.
Arranging a session
Reach out and let us know a little about you. If you have specific touch needs, company preferences or things you would rather avoid, include them in your message.
If sexual experiences are what you are hoping for, ask us about our threesome experience, which is where that is offered. The cuddle and companionship session itself stays fully non sexual.
Wear something comfortable: loose clothing, layers you can adjust, anything that lets your body relax. If you tend to run hot or cold, let us know in advance and we will set the room accordingly.
These sessions are held at our private space in inner Melbourne. Outcall bookings in your home or a hotel are also available across Melbourne and the surrounding areas. Fly Me To You sessions are also available.